by Nicole Fava
Horseback riding is more than just a sport. It’s a lifestyle, and chances are it has shaped you into who you are today. If you’re reading this, you’ve probably already experienced many ups and downs pertaining to horse ownership and competition.
But with every good ride and bad ride comes a chance to learn both riding skills and life skills alike. Here are ten things that I wish I knew earlier in my life with horses.
1. Just because you love horses, doesn’t mean it has to be your career.
It’s perfectly acceptable for horseback riding to remain your hobby! You do not have to be a reputable horse trainer or riding instructor to accomplish your riding dreams.
2. You shouldn’t compare yourself to other riders.
Everyone starts at a different age, rides different horses, and works to achieve different goals. There is no timeline to compete at a certain level.
3. Some of us can afford “nice” horses, and some of us can’t.
And that’s okay, because you still get to ride. So you’re lucky enough.
4. Your one-horse bumper-pull trailer can get you to the same horse shows as a four-horse gooseneck trailer with living quarters.
There, I said it.
5. You should learn to like a horse for their heart, not their athletic ability.
Horses are animals, not objects. Love them for who they are and not what they can win you.
6. A horse’s eye tells you all you need to know about them.
From my experience, I truly believe that your “heart horse” will have kind eyes.
7. Someone who jumps 3’9” is not necessarily a better rider than someone who jumps 2’.
Someone that runs in the 1D is not necessarily a better rider than someone that runs in the 4D. You might have years of riding experience, yet you still haven’t had the chance to ride a horse that can take you to the top. And that’s fine. Be proud of the knowledge you’ve obtained, even if you haven’t had the opportunity to show it.
8. You should always leave your emotions out of riding.
React with logic, not feelings. Your horse will thank you.
9. You should never be afraid to take riding lessons and ask for help.
Olympic level riders take lessons. NFR competitors take lessons. Stay humble, and remember that there is always more to learn in this sport.
10. You should never take a horse for granted.
They only live 30 years, if you’re lucky. Remember that the next time you “don’t feel like going to the barn today”.